Monthly Archives: April 2015

Meal Planning Monday

Monday again, what to eat this week? I would say nothing too wintry and warming, but the weather seems to be taking a turn for the worse so maybe having soup and the like wouldn’t be such a bad idea! I’m currently googling easy salad recipes, I feel like it’d be a healthy lunch option, and good for summer too.

We ate well last week, including this amazing roast dinner at my Dads on Sunday. We never had them as kids unless we were at my Granny’s, so it feels like a special occasion whenever I have one ๐Ÿ™‚

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Anyways, on with this week’s menu…

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Monday

Leftover fish pie (hope it has lasted well…)

Tuesday

Chicken and tomato pasta bake, ร  la this recipeย that I saved from another blog a while ago. Looks delicious ๐Ÿ™‚

Wednesday

Leftover pasta bake

Thursday

Meatball Goulashย – a new one, looks a lot like spaghetti and meatballs, with a paprika twist.

Friday – Sunday

We’re away again, this time on a weekend away with our church family, so we’ll be enjoying lots of meals together. Can’t wait (for the other parts too, not just the food..)!

That’s our week ๐Ÿ™‚ enjoy the bank holiday weekend everyone, I for one cannot wait for my Monday lie in! I’m joining inย with At Home With Mrs M‘s #mealplanningmonday, follow the link for more love and inspiration ๐Ÿ™‚

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Soup, a sunset and some shoes #littleloves

Wahey, another week down. And what a beautiful week it was! So much gorgeous sun, it was all t-shirts and shorts/dresses at school this week.

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So, as well asย all the glorious sunshine and warmth, what have I been loving this week?

Read

Not much. Still going through my history book from last week, we’re onto the George’s now…I never knew that we literally imported a distantly related monarchy from Hanover in the 1700s. Interesting stuff as always, and I’ve learnt about Whigs and Tories. Woo!

Watched

Amongst other bits and bobs, a BBC documentary about girls leaving their families to be ‘jihadi brides’ as part of IS. It shocked me right to the core, it was terrifying and overwhelming and made me long for the day when all the suffering and pain of the world is over.

On a lighter note, I’ve thoroughly enjoyed watching the trees blossom and buds appearing on the branches ๐Ÿ™‚

Wore

Some cheapie new shoes, that I’m sort of loving quite a bit. I did a quick trip to ShoeZone in the week as I needed some shoes for work, and as it was two for ยฃ8, I grabbed another pair in navy. They probably won’t last me beyond the summer, but they’re cute ๐Ÿ™‚

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I know, with socks isn’t ‘cool’, but I’m not sure I care that much ๐Ÿ™‚

There was also a bit of swimsuit-love from the comments last week (thanks so much to everyone who stopped by/commented, it means a lot ๐Ÿ™‚ ), I got mine from Simply Swim. They have a wide selection of ‘legsuits’ as they’re called, great solution to any others out there who want a bit more coverage…

Heard

A bit of Pitch Perfect love ๐Ÿ™‚ Anna Kendrick has a great voice, and I love this simple song. I quite like the fun video here too, using the noises of life to make music (stick with it beyond the long-ish intro).

Made

My first ever fish pie! A Jamie Oliver recipe, which is super simple and quick. No white sauce, just grate some carrot, cheese and celery, chop up some fish and throw them in, add spinach and tomato if you like, then cover with mash. Delish.

Also made some yummy veg soup that was tea once and then lunch for the week. Just the right amount, and was much more flavoursomeย than the varieties that I’ve made before.

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And lastly…

We went to the Peaks with friends on Monday evening to watch the sunset and boy was it stunning. My phone camera, of course, doesn’t do it justice, but the colours were just so wonderful…pastel purples and pinks with stronger yellows and oranges, then the sun was a perfect ball of pinky orange that sunk below the hills to leave a bright pink glow. I wish I could be more poetic than that, but I’ll let the pictures do the talking ๐Ÿ™‚

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I’m linking up with butwhymummywhy?, sharing the love of little things ๐Ÿ™‚

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I think I want a baby

I’ve been trying to put this into words for a while, and have decided to just to write. Rather than compose some sort of coherent essay on the subject, I’ll let my confused thoughts spill onto my keyboard and hope they make sense.

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been thinking more and more about starting a family. I say starting, I mean expanding really, I mean we’re a family at the moment, just a rather small one. Feeling broody (or clucky as my Australian friend calls it) has only really reared its head once since we got married. It lasted for a few months whilst I was in my third year at Uni. As time went on, I realised that this was mainly due to me being disillusioned with studying and wanting to be onto the next thing…cue a heart-to-heart with a wise lady from my church family, and I was reminded of all the great things about being just the two of us for a bit, as well as not needing to rush to the next thing – there’s lots of life to get through!

Fast forward nearly 2 years and here we are today. My dreams of becoming a teacher have been filed away for another time of life (education system problems, that’s another post entirely), so my life options are more open that they’ve ever been…in my entire life. Before my A levels had finished, I knew I was going to Uni. Days after my final exams finished, I had a new job. I’m working right now, of course, and it’s not about to finish, but the path I had imagined my life to take (in the near future at least) has…not ended exactly, rather reached the moors, and there’s no clear route to take. It’s a beautiful place to be, there’s a huge expanse of land with heather, rocks and grass (maybe taking this imagery too far?). Yet the path isn’t mapped out. Many options, none are wrong, the question is just which one to take.

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One of those options is children. We’re at a stage now where there’s less and less reason not to be expanding our family. When we first got married, it was studying, as well as being ‘too young’, by society’s standards at least. When we’d finished at Uni, it was needing to get ourselves settled in jobs/careers, and still being a bit on the young side. Now, I’m 24, my hubby’s 27, he’s getting closer to the elusive permanent job, and I’m…well, not settled in a long-term career. I could do what Kirstie Allsopp suggested and do the whole career thing post-children, although my Mum and Nana would need some convincing. We love kids and know that we want them to be a part of our family, be that biological, adopted, or (hopefully) both. Thanks to inheritance and savings, we could be in a position to buy a house within the next year or so (another thing that seems to be a ‘must-do/have’ to have a family), so having the space would be feasible. Even where we are now definitely has space for at least one little one.

Then there’s the broodiness creeping back. Seeing the newest little addition to our church family all snuggly and sweet, the grinning toddlers pottering around chasing each other, even the older kids talking to their Dad about why toy ducks are always yellow when ducks aren’t even yellow makes me yearn for it that little bit more. People sharing their family lives on some of the blogs that I read adds to the feeling. Of course, I see the more challenging parts of parenting too, but it’s easy to forget that part when you’re cuddling a little one!

And yet this path isn’t an easy one, obviously. Parenting is a huge responsibility, one that daunts, and even overwhelms me, and I’m not even doing it yet! Having children is life-changing, and I’m not sure I’m ready for life to change that drastically just yet.

This, of course, is assuming that we’re able to have biological children. We might spend a couple of years trying, then go down the adoption route, which could in itself take a year or so. Being a Mum is the only thing that Iย know I want to do in life, so why wait?

As I’m writing this, all the umm-ing and ahh-ing over what to do and when to do it, I’m reminded of a verse in Proverbs.

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As much as we talk about these things and map out our lives, God’s purpose will never be thwarted. It’s an encouragement to be reminded that the choices we make are in His hands. This then brings me back to another verse in the same book, just a few chapters back.

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Therein lies my solution to this dilemma: prayer. Commit our worries and plans to God and trust Him to work out His plan for our lives as we make our way across the beautiful moors of life.